Let´s look at your concerns
Are you hesitant about making a change? It's natural to feel comfortable with the familiar, but sometimes sticking to the status quo holds us back from experiencing something better.
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If you're thinking about joining forces with us, you've already taken a step towards questioning your current situation. Your desire for something more fulfilling is the first sign that change is possible and needed.
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Take a moment to reflect: Is your current path truly leading you where you want to go? Don't settle for less than you deserve. Your journey towards a better life begins with acknowledging that you deserve better. Let's take that step together.
RESISTANCE
In coaching and personal development, resistance is all the reasons our minds throw up when we're trying to grow or change. It's that inner voice saying, "Nope, not going there, it´s unsafe!" It shows up as hesitation, avoidance, or even doing things that sabotage our own progress. Dealing with resistance means facing those uncomfortable feelings or doubts head-on, because they often point to the areas where we need to dig deeper to break through and reach our goals.
I´m too old to start working on myself now. What´s the point You are never too old to start thinking about yourself. Happiness does not have an expiration date. At our retreat center, we even helped people in their late 80´s and even 90´s and the only regret they had was that they didn´t do it sooner.
I´m afraid of painful memories that might come up. This is a genuine concern for many people. The past holds a lot of pain, and that´s why we avoid visiting those memories as much as possible. What´s in the past cannot be changed, so let´s look at what we can do in the now.
It´s too expensive. I don´t have much to spend. Although we cannot lower our prices any more, we can help you manifest the necessary financials and motivation through our free and low-budget courses on Youtube and FreeCanari.com
I have never talked about my feelings and emotions. That´s not an excuse. It´s a very good reason to start doing it now! Not talking about emotions doesn´t mean they don´t exist. You feel the way you do because these emotions have something to say. Let them be heard in a safe environment.
Yeah but...
What will my partner think of it when I do this? Remember, it all about taking back control over your own life. You do this for you. Not for anyone else. They may judge or have an opinion, but is their lesson to learn, not yours.
You have no idea what I´ve been through. How can you fix all that in such a short time? Your past experiences shaped who you are today. But even though you have a unique story, you´d be surprised how many people are dealing with similar underlying issues, including us. You are not alone on this journey and we can help from personal experience.
I can´t work on myself now. I have other people and things to take care of. How did taking responsibility for other people´s problems ever helped you? Did it ever satisfy your need for appreciation and emotional connection on the long term? And how can you truly support and care for others if you are on the brink of collapse?
I need to be in control. I don´t like not knowing what will happen if I talk to you. Sometimes it´s all about letting go of control. Yes, that sounds scary, we know. But trying to control being in control has so far only led to you losing control, right?
I don´t have any problems, I´m just tired of this life and routine. Keep doing what you´re doing. We´ll talk again. Have you ever asked yourself why you are always tired? What it is that keeps draining your energy? Exaclty.
I don´t trust a stranger. I´ve been disappointed one too many times. We don´t expect you to trust us. Trust is something that needs time to build. That´s why we offer a free intake to get to know us and it´s our main reason to offer coaching at your home or at the safe space of our retreat center. The sooner we get there, the more we can achieve.
What if we don´t achieve anything during our time together? Our main slogan is; If you come with the right motivation, we promise you transformation. Of course, the longer we work together, the more we will achieve. But if you´re willing to do the work, there will always be noticable change. What you do with it is up to your though.
I would like more connection with my partner, but i will never get him to open up more. The only thing you have to worry about is YOU right now. You can only achieve a change in your environment if you are on the right frequency yourself. You attract what you reflect. Work on YOU first, and the rest will follow. We´ll work on that confidence together.